My masterpiece - Up for sale!

Ever since my baby arrives, I totally have no time and energy to pick up my hobby again. These are some of the few works I own. Wonder when will I have the courage to work on a new project. Pix taken with compliments from Sophie. Thanks, babe!

Skipping Rope - $350

Grapes on the Vine - $60

Lavender Rope - $18

Flower Bells Hairclip - $25

Butterflies and Leaves - $40 (SOLD)

Blue Rocks! Ring - $25

Mission Possible?

I am on a mission starting from today!
To lose a total of 10kg in 2 months! Watch out for the new me!
(provided I can control snacking and Ken stop tempting me with his Kopi-bing)

Huat.SG

Pounced upon this site called huat.sg
Steady la. Super hard core addicts running out of numbers to buy?
No harm trying.... HUAT AH!!!

Cool animated gif

Check out this old tech animated gif. Cool!

Poem: I Took His Hand and Followed

I Took His Hand and Followed

My dishes went unwashed today,
I didn't make the bed,
I took his hand and followed
Where his eager footsteps led.

Oh yes, we went adventuring,
My little son and I...
Exploring all the great outdoors
Beneath the summer sky

We waded in a crystal stream,
We wandered through a wood...
My kitchen wasn't swept today
But life was gay and good.

We found a cool, sun-dappled glade
And now my small son knows
How Mother Bunny hides her nest,
Where jack-in-the-pulpit grows.

We watched a robin feed her young,
We climbed a sunlit hill...
Saw cloud-sheep scamper through the sky,
We plucked a daffodil.

That my house was neglected,
That I didn't brush the stairs,
In twenty years, no one on earth
Will know, or even care.

But that I've helped my little boy
To noble manhood grow,
In twenty years, the whole wide world
May look and see and know.

Emotional Bank Account

Have you banked in? Are you getting more and more wealthy or are you getting poorer and poorer?

The Emotional Bank Account is a metaphor describing relationships and the P/PC (Production versus building Production Capacity) balance for interdependence. It describes how trust is built on a relationship.

Positive behaviors are deposits building a reserve. Negative behaviors are withdrawals. A high reserve balance results in higher tolerance for our mistakes and more open communication.

There are six major deposits we can make to the emotional bank account:

1. Understanding the individual. An individual's values determine what actions will result in a deposit or a withdrawal for that individual. To build a relationship, you must learn what is important to the other person and make it as important to you as the other person is to you. Understand others deeply as individuals and then treat them in terms of that understanding.


2. Attend to the little things, which are the big things in relationships.


3. Keep commitments. Breaking a promise is a major withdrawal.


4. Clarify expectations. The cause of almost all relationship difficulties is rooted in ambiguous, conflicting expectations around roles and goals. Making an investment of time and effort up front saves time, effort and a major withdrawal later.


5. Show personal integrity. A lack of integrity can undermine almost any effort to create a high trust reserve. Honesty requires conforming our words to reality. Integrity requires conforming reality to our words, keeping promises and fulfilling expectations. The key to the many is the one, especially the one that tests the patience and good humor of the many. How you treat the one reveals how you regard the many, because everyone is ultimately a one.


6. Apologize sincerely when you make a withdrawal. Sincere apologies are deposits, but repeated apologies are interpreted as insincere, resulting in withdrawals.

Abstract from The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Making Marriage Last...

Happy 2008

The Yip family wishes all....
a Happy and Prosperous New Year!